Hello wizzstick!
I'm on a successful fade of four months and my wife is really understanding my situation (a topic for another thread). She goes to the meetings about 60-70% of the time now and tries to see whatever positive she can glean from the meetings. However, I feel that she is seeing a host more about TTATT and will uncoil to her authentic self once she gets home, disrobing the cult personality.
Slowly, but surely.
Yes, I'm glad to hear about your family's current progress in your direction in life.
Alligator Wisdom (aka Brother NOT Exerting Vigorously)